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Being an Empath
I have been asked many times how being an empath feels... I always
smile, because I never know how to describe it - I always thought everybody
thought the way I do,and FELT the way I do. Many times in my life, I've
wondered how people can't feel that someone is hurting, or being under
terrible pressure, or just feeling wonderfully happy... Since I'd been
told by many people over the years that I'm too
"touchy", sensitive, vulnerable, even complicated - I started facing "inward"
and tried to find comfort in my own SELF. That had led me to a
completely new discovery!! I asked the Source for guidance and help, and
the information came pouring in-through books, articles, films and most
importantly - PEOPLE!!!
So I saw the Law of Attraction at work in my own life!
I've learned that I'm not crazy, touchy, or any of those adjectives I used
above to describe myself - I was just a walking "human sponge"!!! My
interest in people and the love I feel for them, I look at now as a
blessing!!! I love tuning in, spending time and having wonderful
conversations with them!! They teach me so much, with each and every
interaction!
I'm thankful to my many friends here on Facebook, thankful to Glenda
Graves for ger guidance, a wonderful loving medium and person she
is, Rev. Kevin Masters who "made" me realize I have a gift (lol), and last
but not least - my friend Hemal who has been leading me by the hand to
this point where I am now - searching for answers and being led to them!!!
I will write more on this subject for sure.
I thank you all for this love I have felt here, and I'm honored to
have each and every one of you as my friends!
Love to all xo :o)
How an Empath Feels
Many times, it has happened with no
warning; the phone rings, I pick up, say "hello", and I hear a voice. BEFORE
I can even recognize whose voice I've heard - the feelings are all over
me. Sadness, pressure, confusion... and a strong need to RELEASE all of
those feelings. Then I recognize the voice, it's usually a friend, of
course and I just ask "What's wrong?"
The answer is always the same:"How do you know something's wrong???"
Well, I do... And, very often, there are "scenes" illustrating those
feelings. They don't necessarily have to be actual ones that have taken
place, and brought the situation to where it is at present. They may just
be scenes that my mind uses to "Illustrate" how the pressing emotions
came about, in the first place.
I only recently came to realize that I was in fact, emphatizing. And
once I've got the person talking, and gently encourage her/him to open
up, we come together, to the very core of the feelngs they're having.
With me, it is even easier when writing. My friend ((Jo))
mentioned, in her comment, how I tune in with her and "feel her
feelings". We usually type, chatting, and my fingers just fly away, lol!!! I
seem to be even more comfortable (and knowledgable) - I may add - when I
write. It's not the same for all of us, I guess we all have our own ways
of "tuning in". Whatever is good for you - works!!
Same goes with feelings of joy - of course, those are fantastic!!!!
There's great pleasure in feeling "double happy"as I call it, - feeling
someone else's happiness PLUS my own, for their JOY!!!!
It's beautiful to help and learn at the same time. Being and talking
with people is a gift which should be cherished.
Thank you for letting me share this with you.
Thank you ((Crystal)) for telling me that I'm not imagining things. Love
you, sister.
Love to my friends xoxoxoxo :o)
What
Empaths do
Empaths are people who don't "read" the future, or predict it
- they, in fact, "read" people, and their energy. A lot, of course, depends on
the person being read, too. What I mean here is this: If you're an open
minded person, one who shares easily and has a trusting nature - you'll be
read very easily, and will get all the beneficial help you need, very
fast. On the other hand, if you're a "doubtful Thomas", or have an
introvert personality, you'll be hard to reach, and hard to be helped. It
doesn't mean it's impossible - let say just - a little more complicated! :o)
We know, though, that most people asking for this kind of counseling
are usually very open minded, and have already been in contact with some
kind of information connected to readings, spiritual growth, self
empowerment, etc. Those that haven't are usually surprised how it all
works - very simply in fact, and that there's no eerie sense of DOOM or
FATE hanging over them like a threatening shadow, nor a frightening lady
with heavy make-up and a huge golden turban on her head telling them
what awaits them around the corner! Unfortunately, readings of any
kind, have been mystified by the media and the film industry - and no
wonder! People are naturally attracted to what seems supernatural or
inexplainable. How their bubble bursts when they find out they are
SUPERNATURAL themselves!!! Lol!!
We all have power within to create what we want. We are all born
healers, empaths, clairvoyants. Some of us have just learned to rely on
it, and actively use it. Whether or not YOU will put your inborn abilities
to use-is your own choice. Are you willing to work on them? Are you ready
to invest your time into practice? Are you interested enough to meet
like- minded people and ask for help? And last but not least - Are you
TEACHABLE? Or should I say - are you willing to learn?
Working close with people is the greatest gift from the Source. We
have all we need inside of us, and interacting with other people who we
attract when we're in alignment with our wantings, makes us feel good and
happy! Everything we need - manifests! Teachers appear, students
approach, doors open, windows close, we are guided to what we need and what
makes us truly happy.
We are born with gifts. Some of us haven't unwrapped them yet!!! An
Empath will help you read yourself, and look within. You'll be surprised
by the beauty of richies that are hidden deep inside you. You will clear
away the clutter that has made your path difficult, and learn to
concentrate on the goodness that is and has been always within your
reach. You'll learn to love people more, and yes - love yourself MOST. This
is not what my mother taught me - nor most of you, lol, but that's the
truth. Because , only then, when we love ourselves most, can we give of
ourselves to others without guilt, anger, impatience or frustration. You'll
give of yourself to others because you WANT to - not because of sense of
duty or obligation, or good manners.
Empaths will feel you, and help you in your search of happiness, and
self love.
I feel love and am grateful for each and every one of you! Blessed
to have you in my life,
love to all xoxoooxo :o)
Our feelings and the Law of Attraction
How many of us have heard the old saying "Misfortune never comes by
itself" ? Or, a saying that is very present in my country goes like
this"If you have a run of bad luck once, expect 2 more runs of it to
come your way!"
Not anything to look forward to, is it? LOL. Well, I agree. Why, then,
these sayings? Why do we always "expect" bad things to happen, and think
it "only natural"?
And, when good things happen, noone dares be truly happy, as you
will "invite" bad luck to come and spoil all the fun you're having!!!
Well... no wonder we fall into difficulties all the time, over and
over.
Knowing how the Law of Attraction works, we are aware now, that we
have accepted bad luck on a subconcious level, too often even on a
concious level - and when it hits us, we are almost triumphant saying -
There!!! I KNEW it!!! I KNEW it!!! I can NEVER be happy for long!!
What you have done here, in fact, is to AGREE to what is happening
to you, and that you actually expected it!! So you got what you wanted!
Another wish fullfilled by the universe.
Another saying goes: "Be careful what you wish for"... Now, that's
wise. You know how the rest of the saying goes - "...because you may get
it".
What we send out - we recieve back. It is that simple. So let us try to
shift our thinking, little by little. Let's not concentrate on bad
outcomes. We do that often, as we feel we can prepare orselves for
disappointment, so when it occurs - we are prepared for it! The truth
is - we never really are. We have learned to have fear of good things
happening, so let's try to change that. The Universe is full of Love
Everlasting!! All our wishes, hopes, and heart's desires are out there
waiting to be fulfilled!!!! Let's WISH!!!!! Let's BELIEVE!!! Let's TRUST
that we already have what we want!!!! It is time to unwrap our gifts we
were born with - l et's do it with JOY in our hearts!!!
With much love from my heart~Maja xoxox :o)
Your feelings are mighty tools!
It is all very simple, actually. Our feelings help us create our
reality!! How wonderful can that be!
Wanting something is a process that moves within us an avalanche of
other processes; we start to imagine what we want and actually feel the
happiness we embrace when we finally get what we want!
Suppose you're dreaming of an exotic holiday; such destinations are
very luxurious and demand a great amount of money. On the other hand-you
may have the money, but not the time to go. There can be many reasons
for you to think that this "dream" is not going to happen, until you
realize that YOU are in charge!! Yes,you are!! What you need to do first
is to get in tune with your wantings and feelings that follow them.
Imagine yourself loking through the holiday brochures. FEEL the
excitement while leafing them, FEEL the happiness when you recognize the
beach of your dreams, FEEL the excitement and JOY of getting on that
airplane, boat, whatever you like... Unpack your bagas in your thoughts,
step out onto that beautiful terrace and breathe in the salty air of the
sea - so many wonderful sensations overcome you, don't they? You can do
this with ANYTHING you want. FEEL the joy of meeting the person of your
dreams, FEEL the happiness of OWNING that house, FEEL the contentment of
that promotion, FEEL the joy of making up with your family... Just FEEL
those GOOD sensations,and allow them to manifest.
Our feelings are mighty tools. Goethe says it so beautifully "Until
one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always
ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there
is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas
and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then
providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would
never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the
decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and
meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would
have come his way. Whatever you do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness
has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now." I know that Providence
does indeed move too. Happiness means so many different things to many
different people. For some people, success is earning a great deal of
money, living in a big house and driving an expensive car. For others
success is being able to stay at home with their children. Or just
getting along with a sibling/spouse/parent day after day. Success comes
in many forms and has many meanings. What success are you seeking in
your life right now?
People who do experience an abundance of Joy in their lives all
have several things in common, the first and most important being that
they simply expect it. When a problem or challenge arises, they believe
that somehow, things will be sorted out in ways that are to their great
benefit and joy. When they desire to advance in their careers, they
truly expect that someone will appear to give them a boost up. No matter
what, they know that they will connect with the right person, the right
set of circumstances, the right knowledge or answers that they need to
continue moving forward in ways that allows life to ever more fully
Bless them. And when we are feeling Joyful, expressing our Joy and
feeling all the Love that must spring forth from within when we are in a
state of Joy, we then become powerful magnets for that which we call
Good Luck. It happens easily and effortlessly, it flows into our lives
in greater and greater abundance. It sweeps us along as a mighty and
powerful force that knows no limitations or boundaries!!
So there we are creating our thoughts, concentrated on how they FEEL
and manifesting them into our lives!!!!! All we need is to get in tune
with our feelings - recognize them, acknowledge them, and act on them by
simply FEELING them the way we want them to manifest. Dwell only on good
thoughts, that bring joy to your heart, and peace to your mind. Dwell on
solutions, rather then the problems. Feel the Universe approaching you
with the greatest LOVE there is - the LOVE of being one with everyone and
everything in that very Universe.
You deserve to
be happy. Allow yourself to be!!
May your souls keep smiling, with love, ~~~ Maja~~~~ :o)
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